A family’s daily long-distance intimacy is severed when Iran’s government plunges the country into an internet blackout during war, leaving one daughter in the U.S. desperate for any word from her parents. The hour gathers smuggled voice memos from inside Iran, where ordinary life, political terror, grief, love and rage all continue beneath bombardment and enforced silence.

Ira Glass makes a funny, unexpectedly candid case against commencement speeches as a doomed genre, then explains why family history, old loyalties and one memorable Goucher dorm room changed his mind. The conversation sets up a 2012 graduation address shaped by skepticism, sentiment and a story about his grandmother meeting Adolf Hitler.

A lively conversation about why even wedding skeptics end up throwing weddings, and how consumerism, social media, class signaling and community needs have reshaped the ritual. Amanda Montell and Anne Helen Peterson parse everything from Princess Diana and Pinterest to child-free receptions, bachelorette parties and the false promise of “timeless” taste.

Aftermath’s hosts talk with Rebecca Valentine about moving from IGN to Kotaku, the shrinking room for investigative games reporting and the stubborn hope created by a few outlets that are still hiring. Along the way, they veer into internet discourse, labor, health care, game criticism and the problem of bringing new writers into a business that remains precarious for almost everyone in it.